Updates from Vicki Merrill

What if you simply...


Struggle, resistance, challenges, and so much effort...

Topics that have been coming up a lot lately with my clients...and honestly, even for myself...

but...

What if you let go of the rope? 

Loosen your grip.  

Relax. Release. Trust. Receive.  

Know that you’re all right.  You’re okay.  

Control is a facade.  

It is not real.  

It is a lie.  

It is deceptive.   

It is not needed.  

Relax your grip a bit more.  

Feel the rope slipping.  

Feel the weight, it’s scratchiness, sliding to the floor.  

Breathe.  

Let it all go.  
  
Let it fall.  

Let all the anxieties, fears, unknowns, frustrations, desires, hurts, problems, emotions slip away,  

Opening space to be, to breathe, to experience life from new eyes, a new perspective,  

Allowing yourself to receive all that is meant for you.  

As your hands tingle and the rope crumples to the ground 

Feel the freedom, the release, the awareness, the possibilities.  

Now that your hands are free to do something different,  

Now that they are free from the burden and discomfort of holding that rope, 

What are you free to create? 

To be? 

To do?  

To receive?  

If you simply drop the rope... 



Be well,

Are those bugs bugging you? Take a peek inside...


It's here!  Summer!! Well, at least according to the calendar...The weather here has been a bit unsure as to what season it is, but... 
 
The weather may be confused, but the bugs, black flies, mosquitoes and ticks are all well aware...LOL   
 
According to Dr. Oli, the World Health Organization considers this to be the deadliest of all animals... 
 
Know what it is?? 
 
 
The mosquito... 
 
Wild, right?? 
  
On our homeschooling journey, one of our favorite resources was Character Sketches. It was in Volume 2 that we learned about the incredible tools of the mosquito...they basically have a surgeon’s tool kit right in a protective sheath that holds six (!!) very delicate instruments – 4 cutting stylets, a syringe (saliva duct) that she uses to inject an anticoagulant, and a tube with which she draws the blood out... 
 
You may not even feel the puncture (bite) of the mosquito because first she deadens the feeling by injecting a fluid that may cause two different reactions. You may immediately start itching, or the itching may not start 1-5 days later.  
 
After she has broken the skin, she will draw blood with a built-in syringe connected to a pump located in her head. But get this...medical researchers have not been able to duplicate this. The diameter of a doctor’s syringe must be many times larger to accomplish the same thing!  
 
 
For centuries, scents of certain plants or smoke from fires have been used to naturally repel insects. But over the last 100 years or so, these have been replaced with toxic chemicals.  
 
Surprise, surprise... 

In the 1940’s, DDT was the first modern synthetic insecticide. There was a jingle to go along with it – “DDT is good for me-e-e!!” Anything that has a jingle must be good for us, right? 😉 
 
Then came DEET, other toxic chemicals, and even chemical coated clothing.  DEET has been associated with seizures, numbness and behavioral changes, the potential to develop nasal cancers from inhalation, compromised immune systems, cardiovascular toxicity, respiratory distress, and severe allergic reactions. Children with DEET toxicity reported lethargy, headaches, tremors, involuntary movements, seizures, and convulsions, though the amount that led to this toxicity was unreported.  
 
Remember, your skin is porous…what goes on your skin, goes into your body in seconds... 
  
 
How about a couple of options?

DIY Itch Stick  
In a roller bottle, combine: 
10 drops Purification 
10 drops Lavender 
10 drops Lemon 
Top with your favorite carrier oil, roll gently to blend.  
To use, simply roll on those bites and itchy places! 
 
 

Quick tip! Enjoying a meal at home outside and want to keep the bugs away? Grab an outdoor fan, put a few drops of Citronella and Geranium on a clothespin (or two!) and attach it to the front of the fan and you will have yourself a giant outdoor diffuser! 

What are your favorite hacks to keep the bugs away?

The real reason your inflammation won't go away (it's not what you think)



Hey, hey, my friend! 

Can we talk about something that might make you a little uncomfortable? 

Stress. 

Stress is all around you. It seems like some days you are simply swimming in it… 

However…did you know that stress is as addictive as nicotine? 

Your body literally becomes addicted to the stress response. 

That stress also creates cortisol…which creates inflammation. 

That inflammation? It is the cause of almost all dis-ease you and your loved ones face. 

But here's the kicker... your nervous system gets so used to this cortisol rush that it starts craving it… 

Just like a smoker craves nicotine… 

So even when life calms down, your body unconsciously looks for stress to get that familiar chemical hit. 

Meanwhile, your immune system is getting hammered. Day after day. 

This is why addressing the emotional roots of your physical symptoms is so crucial. It's not just about managing stress... it's about breaking the addiction cycle that's keeping you stuck in chronic inflammation.  

I know, I know... you're probably thinking, "Vicki, stress isn't something I choose. Life just happens." 

But here’s something simple you can do right now… 

Take a deep breath and ask yourself: "Where in my life am I unconsciously creating or looking for stress?" 

Maybe it's: 
  • Saying yes when you mean no
  • Picking fights with loved ones
  • Procrastinating until you're in crisis mode
  • Checking the news or social media obsessively
  • Playing out worst-case scenarios in your mind

Here's the thing... your nervous system can't tell the difference between a real tiger and the "tiger" of your overflowing inbox, or your co-worker, or the traffic, or your spilled coffee… 

What's the best that could happen if you started recognizing these patterns? 

Your next step: 

Notice your stress patterns this week. No judgment, just awareness. 

And if you're ready to dive deeper into breaking this cycle, let's chat. I'm here to help you address the emotional roots behind your physical symptoms through holistic and spiritual healing modalities. 

If you are ready to transform your relationship with stress, visit www.intentionalwellnessforme.com or simply reply to this email. Let's explore how we can help your body remember what peace feels like.
 
 
P.S. - Your body is not broken. It's just been stuck in survival mode. There's a difference... and there's hope. 

Shift your wellness with this...


Hey, hey, my beautiful friend!

What if I told you that right now...at this very moment... there's an invisible concert playing inside your body?

Not metaphorically. Literally.

Every single cell in your body is vibrating.  

Humming.  

Dancing to frequencies you can't hear… but your body feels…

Sometimes you may feel like your body is fighting against you instead of for you...often it is because one “instrument” is playing just a bit off-key.

You know the effect... when one instrument is just slightly off during a performance? Whether it's at your child's school concert or that time you were the one playing just a bit off key…

The harmony breaks. Your system stumbles.


But here's the best part…

When you take time to tune the instrument, your frequency, your rhythm returns.

I’ve seen it again and again…

As you settle in on the sound table, and the frequencies begin, something shifts.

It's not just relaxation. It's so much deeper.

Your body melts into the table, your breathing changes, softens…

Energy shifts.

You can't see it... but your body knows and remembers how balance feels.  

And you begin to feel like yourself again.  

You start to get your life back.  

You feel like your body is working with you again.

If you're ready to feel like yourself again, I'm here to help.

What if you...

Let go of the rope. 
 
Loosen your grip. 
 
Relax. Release. Trust. Receive. 
 
Know that you’re all right.  You’re okay. 
 
Control is a facade. 
 
It is not real. 
 
It is a lie. 
 
It is deceptive.  
 
It is not needed. 
 
Relax your grip a bit more. 
 
Feel the rope slipping. 
 
Feel the weight, it’s scratchiness, sliding to the floor. 
 
Breathe. 
 
Let it all go. 
 
Let it fall. 
 
Let all the anxieties, fears, unknowns, frustrations, desires, hurts, problems, emotions slip away, 
 
Opening space to be, to breathe, to experience life from new eyes, a new perspective, 
 
Allowing yourself to receive all that is meant for you. 
 
As your hands tingle and the rope crumples to the ground
 
Feel the freedom, the release, the awareness, the possibilities. 
 
Now that your hands are free to do something different, 
 
Now that they are free from the burden and discomfort of holding that rope,
 
What are you free to create?
 
To be?
 
To do? 
 
To receive? 
 
If you simply drop the rope...


 
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Let me introduce myself!

 
Hey, hey, my friend!

I'm the sometimes overwhelmed wife of Dana, homeschooling momma of 11 and Mayme to 15, "expertly" spinning all the plates...until another plate, or two (or ten) get tossed into the chaos...or a plate that was plastic this morning suddenly turns into fine China...can you relate?

A recovering perfectionist giving myself grace to do B- work, make mistakes and maybe even look a bit foolish on rare occasions...

An introverted extrovert who firmly believes dark chocolate makes the world go 'round...(the darker the better because fewer kiddos want to share it with me...).

Everyone has a story leading to where they are today.  Mine started when I was a teen, struggling with migraines. I just dealt with them, not even questioning why. I just knew that a chocolate éclair from Dunkin Donuts wasn’t the right answer, nor was that Pepsi I loved so much…
 
For years I pushed myself through the days, gritting my teeth to bear the pain a little better, taking care of my littles, then crashing into a dark, quiet room to sleep the pain away.
 
I tried a few different things, but I didn’t start seeing improvement until I took a good look at what I was eating. I started slowly taking those toxins and additives out of my diet…MSG, artificial flavors, natural flavors, white sugar, enriched flour, fake sweeteners, artificial colors and those other "ingredients" I couldn’t pronounce.
 
Then I started looking at ingredients in our personal care and household products...that was an eye-opening adventure. If you think everything allowed to be sold in the stores is safe, we need to chat...
 
As I learned better, I did better and I completely swapped out all the toxic products in our home, keeping my family above the wellness line, helped balance our hormones, along with our emotions, even through birth trauma, loss, anxiety, a world-wide pandemic and more.

Continuing my journey, I am now a Licensed Holistic Practitioner, Licensed Spiritual Healer, Certified Raindrop Technique Specialist, and will be a Certified CARE Instructor this summer.

Knowing that friends are family we get to choose for ourselves, I am creating a thriving community of powerful, incredible, plate-spinning women. There is a seat for you at our table, where hearts are touched, souls are healed, walls are torn down, and best lives are lived on our way to wellness, purpose and abundance...guilt free. Come. Join us. Pull up a chair. Get comfy. Let's journey together.

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